Death

Today's topic of choice is death. Why is it so hard for some to get over but for others they go through the grief for years? I don't think it has anything to do with how close to the person you are, but how you deal with things in your life. Some people close up and decide it didn't happen and no matter what you say they will keep on believing. Then, others know it happen and don't know how to deal with it and may go crazy. Then, there are the ones who deal with it perfectly. You know the ones I am talking about. The ones who cry, then like a month later their lives are perfectly contained in their little boxes. I don't know whose way of dealing with it is better. You tell me.